Why the Best Athletes Don’t Always Get the Most Attention
(But High School and College Coaches Always Notice Them) By Coach Dave There’s something I see every year in youth sports and it’s something I also hear about directly from high school and college coaches across the country. Some athletes are loud with their effort.Some are emotional.Some need constant reminders, motivation, or correction. And then there are the athletes who quietly show up every day, do their job, and compete the right way. Ironically, those athletes often get less attention early on. Not because they aren’t good, but because they’re reliable. When an athlete brings consistent effort, a steady attitude, and handles adversity without drama, coaches don’t worry about them. They don’t have to manage them. They don’t have to guess who is going to show up. And that’s exactly what coaches value most. What Coaches Actually Look For Through my conversations with coaches at every level, one message comes up over and over: “We want athletes we can trust.” College coaches aren’t just recruiting talent.They’re recruiting predictability. They ask questions like: - Will this athlete show up the same way every day? - How do they respond when they’re not playing well? - How do they handle coaching? - Do they stay composed when things don’t go their way? Talent gets you noticed.Consistency gets you playing time and recruited. The Difference Between Inconsistent and Game-Ready Athletes Most young athletes aren’t inconsistent because they don’t care.They’re inconsistent because they haven’t trained the mental side of their game yet. One day they’re locked in.The next day they’re frustrated. One game they respond well to mistakes.The next game they spiral. Coaches see this immediately. A game-ready athlete isn’t perfect.They’re dependable. - Their effort doesn’t swing with emotion - Their body language doesn’t collapse - Their response to adversity is steady That’s not personality. That’s mental performance training. Why “Boring” Is Actually a Compliment in Recruiting