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Clock or Compass?
I was rereading Stephen Covey's "First Things First." If you haven't read it, I recommend it. Half of the book covers the gap between how we spend our time (clock) and what's important to us (compass- going in the right direction). Many times what's urgent takes all of our attention and we neglect what's truly important. Let's put First Things First this week. For some of you, this will require a great deal of attention and intention. Where to start? Make sure the important gets its rightful time and place. Things you might deem important, but sometimes or frequently neglect: Physical exercise Spiritual exercise Spending time with loved ones Self-care Learning new things, languages, skills Getting enough sleep/rest Spending time in gratitude Showing sincere appreciation to others Quiet time, reflection, pondering etc. Home maintenance, cleaning Socializing with and serving friends and neighbors Financial planning Volunteering for or mentoring others Tell us what you're going to no longer neglect and report back.
Clock or Compass?
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Another good book along the same lines is Simon Sinek's "Start with Why". It focuses on leadership and uses examples from business, but our families are our first and greatest venture in life. Children always want to know "why". They aren't being difficult or sassy, but searching for motivation. If a family has specific values that are a true north for our compass activities then it is easier to keep children motivated. Better yet, they learn to guide their own behavior toward those values. That aligns with the ultimate goal of parenting; to raise children who are able to navigate the adult world well when they enter it. They can't do that if they are only following the scripts we give (dogmas) and not the values that underlie the rules.
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Brandon Awbrey
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Christian, marriage veteran, retired dad (grown children), part-time counselor, academic, humorist.

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