Hi all, I'm really pleased to announce that I will be going live to do bite size weekly training here in the Skool community to help men working to save or improve their marriages. Starting Thursday 19th March at 5pm GMT (that's currently 1pm Eastern due to the daylight saving time change). I'll be taking you through the core pillars you need to implement to start leading your marriages back towards connection and reconciliation. I'm also open to answering specific questions or challenges you are facing so please make requests here. The training can be accessed via the Calendar at the top of the page. Recordings will be saved and available here if you miss them, but if you can, please join me live so you can ask questions and interact via the chat. My apologies things have been slow on here in our free Marriage Recovery Community the past few weeks. I've been working hard to build an office in my garden to give me space to grow and develop my content, meet more men working to save their marriage and to serve the men in my paid coaching community. I am pleased to see new members joining in spite of our slow start though. Thanks everyone for bearing with us and sticking around and I'm pleased to be kicking this off properly now!

What are you struggling with most right now? During our separation, the bit I struggled most with was losing hope. We were stuck in limbo after my wife told me we were done yet we carried on co-parenting, she blew hot and cold with me, often nothing I would do would be right, other times I sensed hope and then it would disappear. What is your biggest challenge and how are you trying to overcome it?

Welcome everyone. If you’re here, chances are something in your marriage doesn’t feel right. Maybe your wife has pulled away. Maybe she’s talking about separation or divorce. Maybe you’re still living together for the kids but feel like strangers. Maybe you’re barely communicating at all and don’t know what to do next. First thing I want you to know: you’re not weak for being here. Most men don’t reach out until the pain gets loud enough. And for many of us, this is one of the hardest seasons we’ve ever faced. This community exists for one reason:to help men stop destructive patterns, steady themselves, and begin leading differently when their marriage is under threat. This is not a place for wife-bashing, venting, or looking for shortcuts. It's also not therapy, and it’s not a complete coaching program. What it is is a grounded space where men can slow down, get perspective, and learn how to stop making things worse while they work out their next steps. I’ll be present here. I’ll answer questions where I can and I’ll share longer-form free training to help you regulate yourself, handle separation more skillfully, and regain clarity and direction. The focus is always on practical shifts that help you show up calmer, steadier, and more grounded. Many of the men here are dealing with guilt, regret, fear, and uncertainty. Losing daily life with your kids. Losing the woman you love. Feeling like everything you built is slipping away. You don’t need to have it all figured out to be here. All I ask is that you come with honesty, respect, and a willingness to take responsibility for your part of the marriage. To get started, introduce yourself in a post and share: - Where you’re at right now in your marriage - Whether you’re separated, living together, or in limbo - What you’re finding hardest at the moment - What kind of support or clarity you’re hoping for - You don’t need to tell your whole life story. Just enough so we know you’re here and what you’re carrying.