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9d •
Salaam :)
It's been really quiet here lately. I miss the sisterhood we had going during the 5 day challenge. How are you all doing? what have you been working on this month? What is something you could use some encouragement or advice around? For me, I've suddenly been struggling to wake up for Fajr (a few days in the last 2 weeks)- I think a combination of shifting sleep schedules, shorter summer nights, and general tiredness. I pray that I am able to get back on track after my period this week 💗 Bi-ithnillah. Sending you all duas ❤️ May Allah swt protect each and every one of you and ease your tests for you, ameen.
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@Sadia Riaz Ameen! Jazakallah khair for the encouragement🤗
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@Medinat Akindele Ameen! Jee maybe sometimes we just need a break to focus on what truly matters 🤗 May Allah grant all of us ease and bless us all with the best righteous spouses who are good for our deen, dunya and aakhirah.
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@Ayesha Zafar I think we should answer but don't give them the details of everything you're looking for. You can mention it briefly but I think even if they say they meet the requirements you don't take only their word for it. Like if you're saying you want someone who prays ask them also which mosque they go to. How they pray at work. What do they do if they are out shopping and it's prayer time. Figure out how punctual they are with salaah too. Observe their patterns and if actions match words. Do they claim to be a family man or do you actually see them have a good relationship with their parents and siblings
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How to know if you should marry someone after 1 meeting
Assalamu Alaikum sisters Where I live , we do something called a samosa run where the boys family together with the boy come to the girls family. The boy and the girl are allowed to have a conversation for around 30 minutes. Then the boy's mother would tell the girl's mother if he wants to marry her. Then the girl has to decide if she wants to marry him. So what I'm struggling with is how do I know whether this person is someone that I want to marry. How do I know someone's character from 1 conversation?
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Alternate way to do samoosa run: so we do these too but the difference is you don't agree to marry them on day 1. You agree or disagree to getting to know them further like a second meeting. If you pick up confirmed red flags and deal breakers it ends on conversation 1. Otherwise you can say you are open to getting to know them. Then you talk within boundaries until you are convinced that you want to marry or don't want to marry them.
29d •
Need Advice: Struggling with a Recurring Sin.
Assalomu alaikum sisters, I need your help. I am 18 years old and have struggled with a specific sin (masturbation) several times. Each time, I feel deep regret, I cry, and I repent. For about a month, my relationship with Allah was very good, Alhamdulillah. I felt close to Him and was beginning to prioritize His love over everything else. Everything was going well until today; I saw some night dresses while shopping, and afterward, I fell into that sin again. 💔 Now I feel as though that closeness and love have vanished. I feel stuck and lost. I’m not currently interested in marriage or romance, so I don't know how to navigate this. What should I do? I’m sorry for posting this, but I really needed to reach out.
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Firstly Alhamdulillah that you feel remorse for the sin. That is a sign that Allah loves you! You feel guilty and return to Allah in repentance because of your own love for Allah. We are all sinners and this is a safe space so don't apologize for posting because we can all benefit from the advices given. Try to figure out your triggers and what did you do differently in ramadaan or in times that you were doing well by avoiding it. Eg. If movies are the trigger but you find when you are too busy to watch them you avoid it then delete any apps and cancel subscriptions if needed. When you go shopping keep your eyes down and avoid the sleepwear/lingerie sections. If it helps get the boring old t-shirt bras and granny panties if you need to shop for those. Don't stay alone too long especially with your phone. If you find yourself sinning more when the conditions are a certain way then make it a bit uncomfortable. If feeling a little colder can distract you then take a cold shower, turn the air-conditioner temperature down etc. When you slip down, get back up. If you sin keep going back to Allah. Don't ever give up on your duas. Keep the next prayer time in mind and try to keep wudhu. Allah won't give up on you so always go back to Allah even if its a hundred times. May Allah make it easy for you and all of us.
Feb 17 •
✨ Red Flags Aren’t Doubts.. They’re Mercy
Many sisters confuse discomfort with a lack of tawakkul. But one sister reflected, “I kept silencing my concerns because I thought patience meant endurance. Later, I realized Allah was protecting me through those uneasy feelings.” Islam doesn’t teach us to ignore repeated patterns of disrespect, dismissal, or lack of accountability. Red flags aren’t always loud.. they’re often quiet moments where your concerns aren’t taken seriously. Discernment is a form of wisdom, and walking away from harm can be an act of faith. How do you usually respond when something feels off.. do you pause, or do you push through?
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Sometimes if it's just negative thoughts crossing my mind then I'll just observe and see if there's something I'm missing or if it can be reasoned but if it's a gut feeling then I trust it even if I don't have the words because I've learned to trust my intuition with Allah's help.
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@Habibatul Aulia Ameen🌸
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