First, Know you are loved! Having had surgery a few months ago and waiting for it, insurance etc. Girl knowing there's only so much you can control, it is getting taken ingredients car of insurence is a world of its own. Loving yourself through it and refocusing to what you CAN do verses what you cant do...limited thinking gets you only so far!! *speaking from experience * A big help to me was focusing on three big things a day. Sounds strange, but legit. Even if its just working other body parts at gym, getting through work day or just getting out of bed. You will get through it, you got this, you are not alone, listen to your body, (the body keeps the score is a great ref @Lara Pettit !!)) it is telling you what you need, and focus on what can do girl. Even if it is resting.