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Just in case you don't follow him on Instagram. @Clay Cox https://www.instagram.com/p/DRK1mB6khmHT_q528je5g4HpZq9b5gxq6xuxcg0/?img_index=1&igsh=MW9seHkzZGlyN3c0cw==
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WOW!!! Thank you all so much for the recognition. Much appreciated. It's been a long journey for sure. Forever grateful to GM Rickson. James has played a huge part over the past year in making this dream come true for me. I'm not sure I'll ever be able to return the favor. Thanks again! Looking forward to training with everyone.
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@Jason Bodi thank you sir. Hope you are doing well.
Start Here
Welcome to Defend Yourself. Im glad youโ€™re here. As Rickson Gracie's uke (assistant), I am lucky and grateful to be guided by the GOAT ๐Ÿ on a daily basis. In this group I share the lessons Iโ€™ve learned over decades of martial arts training, competition, weapons training, and self defense scenarios. I encourage you to share your experience as well so that we all may learn from and support each other. Step 1: Please introduce yourself by commenting on this post. Share your rank, your martial arts experience, a photo if you like, and where you train. Step 2: Click here to enter the "Get Started Classroom."
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@Andy DeJesus amazing ๐Ÿ™
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@James Driskill ๐Ÿ™
End of year check-in
As the year comes to a close, whatโ€™s the #1 thing you improved most in your jiu-jitsu this year? For me, itโ€™s definitely my sense of weight disturbution and understand how to use โ€œdisconnectionโ€ to my advantage. Please share yours ๐Ÿ˜
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@James Driskill facts
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Humility. This seems to be a subtle constancy but presented in different ways. This year I accepted the fact that my oldest son can now catch me at will.
Smoothest Roll
Who is the smoothest person youโ€™ve rolled with and what made them feel that way? Mine was Mica Galvao and Henry Akins. Two different styles!! With Mica I always felt late, and with Henry (though it was positional) I felt like I couldnโ€™t even get things going. Great experiences that I learned a lot from!
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Rickson - makes me feel like I have no way out. Pressure in places physically impossible. Royler - yoda smiling on my back, impending doom James - constantly provides me pause like in a game with a chess master. I can chose my destiny, pure deception, I learn through poor choices.
Wisdom
Share some wisdom with the group. Iโ€™ll go first. My opponent is my teacher, my ego is my enemy. Leave yours in the comments. ๐Ÿ™Œ
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@James Driskill same here. Can't let it consume you
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@Christine Vogel love this! I'm often saying Jiu-Jitsu proves to me what I knew to be true yesterday may not be tomorrow. Keep that mind open on the mat and in life. See you soon
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Clay Cox
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Rickson Gracie Jiu-jitsu since 1997. Perpetual student, lifelong learner. Two boys and amazing wife who all train. I'm Old, Injured and smiling ๐Ÿ˜Š

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