Stop Saying You’re Ready for Change · Undependent Women's Club

Vickie Helm

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Stop Saying You’re Ready for Change

“I’m ready to change.”... "I'm ready for a change"

It sounds empowering. It feels honest. But it’s a "not enough," lie we tell ourselves.

Because here’s the truth most people avoid...“Ready” is passive.

It waits.“Ready”... is still sitting in the energy of someday....And we all know someday is a thief.

If you want to change your life, you don’t need to prepare for it. You need to become the woman who’s already in it...Change doesn't begin with action.

It begins with your language.

Language is the software of the mind. And your subconscious listens closely for its instructions.

When you say things like:... “I’m just not a morning person.”...or... “I’ve never been good with money.” or “I just can’t focus because I... fill in the blank....”

You’re not actually stating an6 facts. You’re programming your identity and your reality.

Identity is what dictates behavior, not motivation.

This is why so many people are stuck... They won't shift identity to something more empowering.

So, here's the shift I use to this day.

Instead of saying “I’m ready to...”Say:

“I am changing.”

“I’m learning to...”

“I’ve decided that...”

“I’m becoming someone who...”

These are forward-motion statements. Science has proved that we are malluable beings. We are not just one thing, we can bend reality, shape shifts, and create new perspectives any time we want to.

When we shift identity... it activates new neural pathways.

They signal to your subconscious that a new identity is in play.

You are not fixed. You are malleable.

Neuroplasticity is real. You're not stuck with the wiring you inherited or the beliefs you absorbed.

Every time you change your languaging, you reshape what’s possible for your future.

Stop saying you're:

Lame

Broke

So behind

Don't understand

Not good with

Too old

Stuck

I'm trying to

Start saying "I AM"

Discovering

Empowering

Learning

Smart

Changing

Becoming

Wealthy

Capable

A winner

Creating

Not because it’s magic... But because identity drives behavior, and identity is flexible, shapable, and you are capable of shaping your identity.

Where are you still saying, “I’m trying to…” instead of “I am…”? You're fooling yourself if you're "trying too" that quiet self-sabotage.

Where are you still saying, "I don't know if I can...fill in the blank" You're lying to yourself... just shift that identity and see what wonderful new reality shows up for you.

What identity would you need to step into in order to reach your next level?

What one phrase can you start speaking today that reflects the you you’re becoming?

You don’t need more readiness... You need more realness.

Say it with me... "I’m already in motion."

Pay attention to how you're wealthier everyday.

Are you on the journey of challenging what is real for you?

Share your thoughts with us.

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