What changes when you speak from ownership instead of about someone else?
When i speak form ownership, i’m sharing as opposed to trying to dominate the conversation. Through sharing whats coming up for me, I can sometimes become aware of answers to questions that i'd been trying to answer, whether it directly relates to the topic at hand or not.
How does it feel to be witnessed without being fixed, and to do the same for another man?
To be witnessed without being fixed feels safe and, based on how the person witnesses, can lead to trusting a person enough to ask their opinion. And to do that for someone feels like I'm really helping them without getting in the way.