I got a paragraph from the avoidant
Sooo , I sent the avoidant a paragraph as follows( he has been reposting petty garbage about us n pretending to be oh so hurt ) :
Hey S, I really appreciate all you've done for me over this almost last two years. I really didn't want everything to end up ugly but they did. I will no longer be engaging seeing as I haven't received much of a response these last few days. wishing you all the success in art, school and what ever endeavors life brings to you:) happy holidays, god bless and take care.
Which they said to me :
Good morning I know I have given you the dissatisfaction of my silence and I’ve been very avoidant when it came to constructing this message telling you how I feel about it all truth be told I just want to be done with everything and not having to confront it, but knowing good and well deep down that I was going to have to confront it at some point so truth be told I don’t want to have another conversation. There is no other conversation that needs to be had. What’s done is done. I apologize on my end for how things turned out to be. I apologize for making everything ugly. It really is on my end. I apologize for stupid decisions that I’ve made over the course of or dealing and outside of our dealings as well and I just want you to understand that you are warranted to do everything that you feel the need to do. I am in full support of whatever you feel is right but I know on my end I am completely checked out with everything and damn near everyone so I hope you have an amazing year at UCF. I hope your future endeavors regarding kinesiology the health sports and exercise science propel you to success that you have never seen before, and I hope you achieve all the stuff all of the goals that you set your mind to so I hope you have a great rest of your day
This is all I have to say take care
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I got a paragraph from the avoidant
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