Hi everyone, my baby is now 10 months old - time truly flies! When he was first born, he didn't latch even though I felt like we tried to do everything right. My baby boy was placed on my chest for skin to skin for three uninterrupted hours, but he never went to latch. We struggled with feeding in those early days and saw multiple lactation consultants both in hospital and once we were home. Feeding was incredibly painful. At one of my private midwife appointments we were told he had an upper lip tie and that it would likely get worse and that he would struggle to ever feed properly or gain weight. I won't lie hearing this really stressed us. Part of me wondered, what if they were right? Without anyone properly assessing the inside of his mouth, we were given a number to have his upper lip lasered and told that this woukd fix everything. Instead my husband and I continued taking him to Simon and we worked gently on his body tension (caused from the way he came out of the birth canal) and supporting him to latch more effectively. Interestingly Simon was never concerned about his upper lip and after learning more about this, what my son had began to seem very normal. As weeks went on, we began to learn more about one another and I stopped pressuring myself and my baby to feed in a cetain way or hold a certain position. When I let go of these expectations, he latched and he figured it out on his own. No cutting, no lasering just time and support. Now ten months later and my baby boy is thriving and we're pretty much breastfeeding pros 🤍

I don’t have children yet, but I’m planning to in the near future and wanted to be proactive and informed before that journey begins. I’m here to learn, understand the bigger picture, and feel more confident heading into pregnancy and early parenthood when the time comes. Grateful to be here and already finding so much value in this space 🫶🏻

This space is for sharing where you and your child are at, questions, experiences, or anything you’re noticing. If you’re comfortable, you can include: • Your child’s age • What you’re noticing (feeding, sleep, tension, etc.) • Where you’re at right now (learning, considering assessment, post-release) Share only what feels right.There’s no “right” way to post here, and no pressure to have all the answers. You’re not alone 🤍