Trait:
Repeats words, phrases, sounds, or noises โ not to communicate, but because it feels good or necessary.
What it can look like:
Humming, clicking, or making repetitive sounds
Repeating a word or phrase over and over
Echoing things they've heard from TV or conversations
Narrating or sound-effecting constantly while playing
This is verbal stimming.
Stimming โ short for self-stimulatory behaviour โ is the brain and body's way of regulating itself through repetition. Verbal stimming uses sound and speech the same way others might rock, fidget, or pace. It can signal joy, excitement, anxiety, or simply the need to process.
Gentle guidance:
Don't silence it โ find out what it's communicating first
Notice when it increases โ it's often a sign something is building
Create spaces where sounds are welcome and free
Only redirect when it's causing a real barrier โ not just discomfort for others
The sounds aren't random โ they're the nervous system doing its job out loud. ๐ฟ