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Just looking for some clairity.. I think I did it to myself though I tried having a conversation with my mom and it didn't go well . I want to know If I did something wrong so here's how the conversation went .
ME : I texted her and I was like I know we argue or whatever but I'm still your daughter and your my mom and I'd like to have a relationship with you
MOM : I don't wanna have a relationship with someone who tells the honest truth about people .
ME: Are you saying that because I tell you what my boundaries are and you don't follow them because to me it's 100% what that sounds like .
MOM: I am saying that because when you tell me everything that's wrong it brings me down .
ME: well my whole life you've brought me down mom I don't mean to be rude but I'm kinda the way I am because of the childhood trauma from you .
MOM: I'm done having this conversation with you can you just go back to acting like I didn't exsist thank you .
In the last text I sent her I can kinda see a little bit maybe I gave her an attitude but I mean if someone's not following my boundaries I don't know how to word my response . WHAT REALLY GOT ME WAS THE GO BACK TO ACTING LIKE SHE DIDNT EXISIST. I never was doing that and wouldn't I know she's made mistakes but shes still my mother .
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