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It’s almost March. Be honest. Are you still going after the goals you set in January…or have you quietly adjusted them to feel more comfortable? This is the part of the year nobody talks about. The hype is gone. The excitement faded. Now it’s just discipline. At some point it stops being about motivation. It becomes about keeping your word to yourself. So I’ll ask you straight: Are you growing into who you said you wanted to become this year? 👇 Where are you at right now...crushing it, coasting, or recalibrating?
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🧭 The Confidence Gap, Why Fear Costs Time More Than Mistakes Do
Most of us think the biggest risk with AI is getting something wrong. But in practice, the bigger cost is getting stuck. Fear, hesitation, and perfectionism quietly inflate time-to-first-draft, increase meeting hours, and keep us doing work the slow way even when better options exist. Mistakes can be corrected. Avoidance turns into a permanent time tax. AI adoption becomes real when we build confidence, not as a personality trait, but as a workflow design. Confidence is a time strategy because it reduces friction, shortens cycles, and helps us move from “thinking about using AI” to actually reclaiming hours. ------------- Context: How Fear Turns Into Lost Hours ------------- The confidence gap usually does not look dramatic. It looks like small delays. We open the tool, we type a prompt, we delete it, we try again, then we decide we will just do it ourselves. We tell ourselves it is faster this way, but what is really happening is that uncertainty is steering the workflow. Fear shows up as over-checking. We draft with AI, then we read and reread, looking for what might be wrong, because we do not trust the output or we do not trust our ability to spot issues. That can be responsible, but it can also become unbounded. We do not know when we are “done checking,” so the time expands. Fear also shows up as meeting gravity. Instead of sending a draft, we schedule a call to “align.” Instead of proposing a direction, we ask for more input. We do this because we want safety, but the cost is time-to-decision and cycle time. Then there is the identity layer. Many of us have been rewarded for being competent, accurate, and reliable. AI introduces a new dynamic: we are working with a tool that can be brilliant and wrong in the same breath. That ambiguity can feel threatening. So we keep AI at arm’s length, and we keep doing things manually, not because it is best, but because it is familiar. The result is predictable. We miss the biggest time gains: faster starts, fewer blank pages, fewer revision loops, and cleaner handoffs. We remain in the “manual default,” and the week keeps feeling compressed.
🧭 The Confidence Gap, Why Fear Costs Time More Than Mistakes Do
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The Best Free AI Got a MASSIVE Upgrade & More AI News You Can Use
This week, I break down some huge updates to Claude that, combined with the introduction of ads in ChatGPT, make Claude the best AI if you're on a free plan. Plus, I cover the barrage of OpenAI news and releases, discusses the evolution of the "OpenClaw" movement, and more. Enjoy!
A Lesson In Communication (TLDR at the bottom)
I just had a conversation with my girlfriend today. She was telling me about how I spend a lot of time working, how she tries to be understanding, but she also needs XYZ, and so on. Old me would've gotten defensive. Started explaining why I work so much. End up shooting her feelings down without realizing it. But instead, I paused and asked: "What is she saying, and what does she want to have happen?" When I looked at it that way, the answer was clear. She wanted to voice her feelings and have them validated. She wanted to renegotiate how our relationship is working right now because specific things were making her feel a negative emotion. She wasn’t attacking me with some hidden agenda. She’s just trying to communicate what she needs. Here's the weird part. I learned this from talking to AI. I've spent the better part of 2 years communicating with AI and trying to get the outputs I want out of it. Through that process, I've realized how bad I am at communicating. There are tons of prompting guides out there, but they're all variations of "how to communicate better." What changed things for me was learning to speak in terms of actions and changed behavior. Building prompts with a broad core identity that gives the AI context, then giving it a clear checklist ("if this happens, then do that" style instructions). That approach gives me the most consistently good outputs from my AI agents, chatbots, and voice agents. But getting there required hours of reviewing my own inputs. Looking at what I said, then looking at what the AI did, and figuring out where the gap was between the two. I believe that same skill transfers directly to people. When I'm in a conversation now, I can step outside of it and ask those same two questions: What is this person saying, and what do they want to have happen? Putting emphasis on those two points has allowed me to: 1. Not get as angry at specific words and the meanings I'm placing on them, and instead focus on their intent. 2. Better understand what they actually want, and adjust my behavior to align with it.
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New week. Fresh start.
New week. Fresh start. Whatever didn’t work last week? Leave it there. Whatever slowed you down? Learn from it. This week isn’t about being perfect. it's about being intentional. One clear goal. one improved habit. one step forward. Progress doesn’t come from doing everything comes from doing the right things consistently. What’s ONE thing you’re committed to improving or completing this week? Drop it below, let’s start strong
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