Trouble accepting ADHD · The ADHDer Club

Trouble accepting ADHD

I found out that I have ADHD last year, and later realized it was AuDHD. I was so fixated on trying to 'fix' myself and making sure I don't make the same mistakes I make every single semester, but it still feels like a vicious cycle and I think I'm just too tired to keep up the positive facade of 'everything will be okay' or 'I have a system for everything so I should be able to catch up with the rest'. Don't you guys find it unfair that society is not built for us? Having a system for everything is tiring and one day I feel like I might just collapse there and then.

My sense of justice is wack and refuses to accept the pattern of trying harder than others just to feel 'normal' or accepted into society.

It's hard to find advice I haven't already heard or accepting words of comfort I'm trying to tell myself, but has anyone else felt the same?

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