Is Your Team Smelling Your Fear? The Surprising Neuroscience Behind Chaotic Meetings in Your Shop
Ever walk into a meeting feeling tense and wondered why things went sideways so fast? Turns out there’s a neuroscience secret sabotaging your shop meetings: your team can literally smell your fear. In 2009, neuroscientists made a fascinating discovery: - Volunteers exercised on treadmills, scientists collected sweat. - Same volunteers went skydiving, scientists collected that sweat too. - Volunteers in brain scanners were exposed to these invisible scents. The results? Fear sweat activated the amygdala (your brain’s alarm system) instantly. Exercise sweat? No reaction at all. Here's why this matters for your shop meetings: When you walk in stressed about cash flow, worried about losing your top tech, or anxious about a comeback—your team subconsciously senses it, triggering fight-or-flight mode before you even speak. That's why meetings derail quickly: - Your service advisor gets defensive about ARO. - Your lead tech clams up instead of sharing valuable insights. - Everyone becomes territorial, arguing rather than solving problems. - The interview makes a turn for the worse and the tech ghosts you when you try to follow-up. I've seen this happen in dozens of shops. An owner’s hidden fear creates a ripple effect, harming productivity and morale. The good news? When fear is named, it loses its power. Next time things get tense, try these two questions: 1. "What's the thing you're scared of having happen?" 2. "How do we prevent it together?" Watch what happens: - Your tech admits they're worried about comebacks. - Your advisor reveals they're anxious about customer complaints. - Suddenly, your team tackles real problems together instead of fighting imaginary battles. - The interview goes great and the tech takes your call to make an offer. Your experiment this week: - Use these two questions in your next meeting. - Notice what shifts, then come back and share your results. Because leading your shop isn’t about being fearless—it’s about naming your fear, so it doesn’t run your meetings.