“We define ourselves far too often by our past failures. That’s not you. You are this person right now. You’re the person who has learned from those failures.”

I love a success story, but even more than a success story; I like a dude who f**ks his life up and gets his life together again story.

Most of you know I spent 35 years as a firefighter. I’ve seen flames, crashes, trauma — but the hardest battles were the ones I fought alone, in my own head. There was a time I was ready to end it all. I was sitting on the side of the highway, thinking of driving in front of a semi. What stopped me? A single photo. A picture of my three boys, tucked in my visor. That moment changed my life — and it’s the reason I’m here today. That’s why this community exists. Because sometimes one story, one moment, or one reminder is enough to keep someone alive. 👉 Now it’s your turn: What’s your “picture that saved your life”? 🔹 It could be a person. 🔹 A memory. 🔹 A hobby or passion. 🔹 Even a simple reason that keeps you going. Drop it in the comments 👇 You never know who your story might help. — Richard Dheilly

A road map to survive life’s ups & downs. You made it here — and that already says something about you. This community is built for anyone who’s been knocked down by life but refuses to stay down. No matter your age, background, or story… you belong here. I’m Richard Dheilly — a retired firefighter of 35 years, a father, a PTSD survivor, someone who has lived with Bipolar Disorder, gone through divorce, raised three boys, and found healing through photography. My story isn’t perfect. It’s messy, painful, and at times, nearly ended. But it’s real — and it’s proof that you can survive. This space isn’t just about my story — it’s about all of our stories. Together, we can help each other carry the weight, share the roadmap, and find the strength to keep going. ✅ How to Use This Community 🔹 Share your story. Post about the highs and lows of your journey. Someone out there needs to hear it. 🔹 Ask questions. If you’re struggling, reach out. The community is here to listen and help. 🔹 Support others. Comment, encourage, and remind people they’re not alone. 📚 Explore the Classroom Inside you’ll find my book The Picture That Saved My Life and other lessons drawn from real experiences with firefighting, mental health, fatherhood, and photography. 📅 Join Live Conversations Check the calendar for upcoming calls — sometimes scheduled, sometimes spontaneous. These are safe spaces where we can connect in real time. ❤️ The Rule Here Is Simple Be real. Be respectful. And remember — your story has the power to help someone else survive. 👉 Start here: Drop a short intro about yourself below. 🔹 Who are you? 🔹 What’s one challenge you’ve faced (or are facing)? 🔹 What’s one thing that keeps you moving forward? Let’s build this together. — Richard Dheilly