I only listen closely to a few people, like Chris Williamson, Goggins and Hormozi.
My rule: listen to and copy the people who have the life you want. Pretty much ignore everyone else's opinion on how you should live.
Not in a rude way. Your uncle, your coworker, your friend who "just wants you to be realistic" might love you. But if they don't have the life you're going after, they can't show you the way there.
Look at the voices in your head this week. Whose are they? And do those people have what you want?