The deflector · The Selfwork Club

The deflector

I've just watched week 1 and discovered my default pattern is the deflector and it shows up most whenever someone tries to get to know me more as a person and asks me a personal question, like what do you do in your free time or what do you enjoy. I wasn't even aware of this before watching module 1. I almost always use humour to dodge the question or give a vague answer. I think I do this because deep down I'm afraid of being judged and would rather have surface-level connections than allow myself to be vulnerable. Going forward I will do the homework for week 1 and notice when the pattern is triggered and what it leads to, while also remembering to focus my attention outwards when it starts to go inwards. Look forward to learning more when I unlock week 2.💯

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