I've just watched week 1 and discovered my default pattern is the deflector and it shows up most whenever someone tries to get to know me more as a person and asks me a personal question, like what do you do in your free time or what do you enjoy. I wasn't even aware of this before watching module 1. I almost always use humour to dodge the question or give a vague answer. I think I do this because deep down I'm afraid of being judged and would rather have surface-level connections than allow myself to be vulnerable. Going forward I will do the homework for week 1 and notice when the pattern is triggered and what it leads to, while also remembering to focus my attention outwards when it starts to go inwards. Look forward to learning more when I unlock week 2.💯

Salaam everyone. Im Zoraiz and Right now I’m focused on building more discipline, confidence, and becoming someone who actually follows through on what I know I need to do. One thing I want to improve is my communication and self-belief. I want to express myself more clearly, stop overthinking, and take action without holding myself back. I joined SWC because I know I’ve been stuck in certain patterns, and I’m ready to change that. I want structure, accountability, and a system that helps me rebuild my mindset and become more consistent in how I show up and execute.

I feel as though i have all of these patterns and is heavliy context dependent the biggest one i am facing right now is the shrinker in this new job , - scared to ask questions in meetings - scared to speak to colleagues in a group discussion - scared to speak to ask for help in front of everyone i can also be the perfomer in groups im comortable with eg friends , table tennis club - i always try to make the person laugh - i always try to one up my jokes - i always try to say something smart the people pleaser is something i can be part of too - always agree with the easiest opinon - struggle to say a clear no to plans and alawys lie - struggle to challenege opinions the defllector is something i have experience of but not that much - i never want to show people i am struggliung with my new job - whenever people ask if i have friends i lie and say i have a ton of them - whenever people ask about marriage i gave vague answers I have a ton of work to do but the biggest one i am feeling right now is the shrinker and its directly impacting my job performance , it could literally make or break me passing probation

Hi I'm Shah. Right now I'm focused on learning about AI and starting an AI agency. One thing I want to improve is my ability to clearly articulate ideas. I joined SDW to improve my communication skills. Look forward to improving with this community.🔥