💥 How misalignment leads to burnout

Hello guys! 🫶 let me share something important that I saw in myself and in my clients too.

Any time I’ve tried to build from “should,” from proving, from survival, from pressure… I can do it for a while. It looks good on the outside, right? Because these people, from which that "should" came, are the ones who are now nodding their heads (usually it's family, any other authority or society in general). But what about your soul? Your real desires? Your truth and authenticity? simply put, this decision always costs something internally — and eventually it turns into burnout.

What changed for me was learning how to return to myself first without lying to myself or without any performance.Then align what’s been misaligned (values, pace, boundaries, what I actually want). And then, only then… expand.

Return ➡ Align ➡ Expand

And I’m seeing this pattern with clients too. When they stop forcing growth from a stressed-out identity and start building from truth, many things becomes clearer:

decisions get simpler and more natural (because they're aligned with their intuition, especially women)
boundaries stop feeling “mean”
energy stabilizes
& growth actually sticks
their means of income start to be effortless

It’s wild how often the “missing strategy” is just: quiet time + honest conversations + a few questions you don’t rush past.

Curious — have you felt misaligned recently? Like you’re building something successful, but it’s not coming from your real values anymore?

(If you want to share: what’s the biggest sign for you that you’re out of alignment?)

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