4 patterns
I feel as though i have all of these patterns and is heavliy context dependent
the biggest one i am facing right now is the shrinker in this new job ,
- scared to ask questions in meetings
- scared to speak to colleagues in a group discussion
- scared to speak to ask for help in front of everyone
i can also be the perfomer in groups im comortable with eg friends , table tennis club
- i always try to make the person laugh
- i always try to one up my jokes
- i always try to say something smart
the people pleaser is something i can be part of too
- always agree with the easiest opinon
- struggle to say a clear no to plans and alawys lie
- struggle to challenege opinions
the defllector is something i have experience of but not that much
- i never want to show people i am struggliung with my new job
- whenever people ask if i have friends i lie and say i have a ton of them
- whenever people ask about marriage i gave vague answers
I have a ton of work to do but the biggest one i am feeling right now is the shrinker and its directly impacting my job performance , it could literally make or break me passing probation
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4 patterns
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