Hey Brother, The fastest way to get what you want, is to say what you want. It’s almost too obvious to say.  But many of us don’t do it.  Especially in the bedroom. We don’t want to feel weird,  or judged,  and we really don’t want to feel ashamed. Now, when you don’t say what you want,  what you’re really saying is: “I don’t trust that I can handle a no.” So we start pleasing, lying, manipulating or waiting— in the hopes that will get us what we want, without actually having to put ourselves out there. And if you’ve lived like that,  you already know how empty that feels.  I sure as hell do. Now, here’s the shift I had to make: Rejection isn’t failure,  or an attack on your self-worth.  It is clarity. She’s not into something you’re into?  That’s great! Now you can stop losing sleep over it. And here’s the thing most men don’t expect: When a man actually owns his desire,  and shares it without apology,  women are often far more open than he imagined. Because confidence in desire is attractive. The more you share your desires, the easier it becomes. You still won’t always get what you want. But the relief of no longer betraying yourself outweighs any no you’ll receive.  Once you stop seeing rejection as failure and start seeing it as clarity,  it becomes a powerful tool for alignment. And yes, that can be scary. Because finally owning your desire might reveal  that a relationship was never truly aligned to begin with. But here’s the thing: Many couples reach that conclusion  before they ever dared to speak their truth. So before you make drastic decisions,  why not practice honesty first? — Sanne

Hey Brother, Let me tell you the secret to seducing all women. There was a point in my seduction journey that I got convinced that if I got a woman on a date, I would end up in bed with her. This might sound arrogant, but it wasn’t far from the truth. I had learned how to respond to her every question. I knew when and how to touch her. And maybe most important of all, I learned when to shut up and not get in my own way. I got so confident…that I lost my enthusiasm for it. I had practiced my skills as a seducer, to the point there was no longer mystery there. The excitement behind “will it? won’t it?” faded away. That’s when I started my intimate massage practice, where women would come to open themselves to me in spirit, heart, mind and body. That’s when I discovered how naive my ideas on seduction really were. That’s when I learned the true secret to seducing women. It’s simple, but profound. A skill very few man ever develop: The ability to surrender into her beauty!!! All these skills I had developed over the years were useful, sure. But in many ways unnecessary. Because the only thing that truly matters is breathing in her essence fully. Marveling at her grace. Surrendering equally to the wonders of her body, her soul, and her divinity. And making damn sure she notices your savoring of it. This has always activated women, and will always continue to do so. Albert Camus understood it when he said: “I don’t seduce, I surrender.” Casanova knew when he wrote: “I don’t conquer, I submit.” “I am the seducer seduced.” Zan Perrion so eloquently put. This realization reignited my passion for women. Away from “do I have the skills to seduce her?” back to the delightful curiosity of “in how many ways can I be swept away by her?” Women of all ages love these rare men who let themselves be swept away. As they would you, since any man can do this. And you can do it… now! The only reason you don’t, is because you’ve been convinced it has to be harder than that.

Hey Brother, Tonight, we begin a journey into the Art of Intimacy. If you’re hesitating, wondering whether this is right for you, remember this simple truth: “Thinking we already know all there is to know about sex is the biggest obstacle to enjoying greater intimacy.” — Amara Charles That’s what fascinates me most about this work. The pleasure, the connection, the joy you can experience together… it’s endlessly expandable. My s*x life was already great in my twenties. But after discovering polarity and the principles I now teach, the depth and enjoyment I feel have gone far beyond what I thought possible. And I want every man, and every woman, to share in that kind of ecstasy. Intimacy is one of life’s most vital areas. Why not make it extraordinary? Join us tonight for a fascinating, playful, and transformative ride. You’ll walk away with an understanding of women and intimacy that few men ever reach. This is your moment. Take it. 👉 Read more about Reclaim the Fire here. or simply reply “I’m in.”  — Sanne

Hey Brother, Something magical happens when a man finally discovers the freedom and power in himself to lead a woman into pleasure. It brings a confidence that’s unmatched. A deep, unshakable trust in himself. A quiet knowing that he has what it takes. I’ve seen it happen many times. And I’ve felt it in myself. Now, I want you to feel it too. To experience what it’s like when your Erotic leader comes alive. You might not have the intimacy you want right now, and that’s okay. We’re all figuring it out. So don’t be too hard on yourself. But understand this: "Men are the gatekeepers of intimacy and growth in a relationship." It’s up to you to bring the change. To guide the connection. To lead her deeper. If you want a roadmap for how to do that, keep reading. After more than twelve years immersed in intimacy, polarity, tantra, BDSM, and the spiritual dimensions of desire, I distilled everything I’ve learned into one complete initiation for men. It’s called Reclaim the Fire:an 8-week journey for men ready to create blissful, powerful intimacy and learn to lead women with depth, presence, and confidence. And we start tonight. It’s not too late to join. This is the wisdom your father never passed down, but now, it’s your turn to embody it. If you’re ready to step into your power, read more about it here. https://gamma.app/docs/Reclaim-the-Fire-yu1lytlghgt6de2?mode=doc Allow yourself to create the love life you’ve always dreamed of, and become the man women never forget. 🔥 Doors close tonight! — Sanne

Hey Brother, Every relationship has a vision driving it. So does your intimate life. The problem? Most people never consciously create that vision. They’re running on autopilot, following the relationship blueprint they inherited from their parents. And those blueprints rarely lead to passion. They lead to disconnection, resentment, and quiet frustration. You might’ve tried to fix it: A date night. A massage. A deep talk. But if nothing’s truly changed, it’s probably because there was never a clear vision behind your actions. If you want her to look at you with desire again, to surrender into shared bliss, to explore the wild, playful depths of intimacy... You need a plan. A roadmap that goes beyond “just trying harder.” Over the last six months, I’ve built that roadmap. Everything a man needs to ignite the fire: in himself, his relationship, and his intimate life. If you’re ready to become an erotic leader, an unforgettable lover who creates deep connection and passion by design… read on. In my younger years, I struggled deeply to relate to women. Raised by a single mother, I never saw what healthy polarity looked like. So I went searching. How do you truly seduce a woman? How do you find the confidence to lead? How do you communicate in ways that open her heart? How do you hold her emotions without losing yourself? Twelve years later—after traveling the world, studying with masters, and living the lessons—this has become my life’s work. And tomorrow, we begin the next round of Reclaim the Fire, an 8-week initiation into the Art of Intimacy.  If this speaks to you, read the details here. This is your last chance this year to invest in one of life’s most vital areas, and to enter 2026 with reignited desire ,deep confidence, and a renewed lust for life and women. Doors close soon. — Sanne