Module 6 in my coaching is Daily Disciplines - the tension in ambivalence probably gets me most right here at the moment. My subconscious mind enjoys the known comfort of the guy I've been for a long time... but there's no holding back the man I'm becoming - I actually know the way - the path to get there in many regards because I've been there before (Moab - circa 2008 photo - best shape of my life...) I wasn't a complete man then - my fitness and strength were very good but I was falling down in other ways. NOW - creating the identity God put inside my DNA and finding the agreement of discipline that says repeatedly: "I AM who God says I AM and today my actions will prove it." - DO THE REPS!!

Starting something like this brotherhood is a lot like pushing a boulder uphill. No momentum. No crowd.Just you, the grind, and the conviction that the top is closer than it feels. But here’s the truth I can already see the ridge — the moment this thing crests the hill and starts rolling on its own. Men joining men.Iron sharpening iron.A movement that builds its own momentum. That’s why we’re gathering every Thursday night. 👉 The Brotherhood Hangout Open, real conversation. Men doing the work together.And yes — it’s free. Bring a friend. This week’s topic: Ambivalence.That tension between the old identity you’re leaving behind and the new identity God is pulling you into.(Also known as: the reason I sometimes jam out on those morning gym sessions 😅) And PS — AI gave me a jawline I apparently paid extra for in that boulder photo… but the grit?That’s real.That’s what starting looks like. Come join us Thursday night.Let’s build the kind of momentum that changes lives.

Brothers, This week I want to open up a conversation around something most of us have felt… but almost none of us have had language for: Ambivalence. That internal tug-of-war between who you were and who you’re becoming. I’ll be sharing a deeper teaching on this in the group — especially how ambivalence isn’t indecision at all… it’s the subconscious protecting an old identity that God is trying to renew. This is foundational work for every man on his comeback. 👇 Let’s talk about it here in the comments: Where have you felt that internal pull between the old identity and the man you’re trying to step into? And for the Premium brothers… 🗓 Let’s get face-to-face on Thursday, December 11 I want to dig into this together inside the Premium Members Hangout. Bring your questions, your story, or even just the part of this that’s been hitting home for you. This one matters. See you inside. 👑🔥

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