Like… embarrassingly hard.
I’ll try 15 different ways to solve somethingI’ll lose hours (even days) trying, tweaking and figuring it out myself... Before I even consider asking someone for help.
And the worst part? I don’t do it because I think I’m “so capable.” I do it because somewhere inside, I still feel like…asking for help = being a burden. (By writing this, I just realized my 99 year old grandma always said that, I dont want to be a burden)
But here’s the truth I’m (slowly) learning: Not asking keeps us stuck. Slows us down. Drains our energy. And disconnects us from the very people who want to see me succed.
If you’ve ever felt this too, you’re not alone, but dont let yourself get stuck bc you dont want to ask for help...