If something feels hard every day, it’s time to adjust the system—not push harder. When something is consistently difficult, that’s not a child issue—it’s a system issue. Most adults keep pushing through instead of adjusting the structure. Which part of your day feels the hardest right now? A. Transitions B. Mealtime C. Nap time Comment A, B, or C.

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If something feels hard every day, it’s time to adjust the system, not push harder.

Routines don’t limit children—they free them. What routines do you follow with your child or with your students?

It’s beautiful to see comments in our group. I hope everyone is having a great day! Universal tip #7 Always remember children are like sponges and the knowledge we expose them to is what they will show others.