What behavior gets labeled “challenging” but is actually developmentally normal?

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When a child resists help, they’re often protecting autonomy—not rejecting support. Silence, used intentionally, can de-escalate faster than redirection.

Consistency across adults matters. Mixed messages confuse children and fuel power struggles. A calm adult nervous system helps regulate a child’s nervous system.