Want To Hear How I Got Started... Long Read, But SO Worth it ;-)
โฆ.๐ ๐๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐ ๐๐๐ฏ๐ ๐
๐ฎ๐งโฆ. ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐: I remember one Friday night in San Franciscoโฆ.I'd had a couple of drinks at home, alone,... and decided to go for a walk. I was dressed way too casually to go anywhere nice and honestlyโฆ.I would NEVER go to a party by myself. So I just walked..... And I remember seeing them.... Young vibrant college kids lined up outside a dance clubโฆ.all dressed to the ninesโฆ.laughing, flirting, full of energyโฆ.ready to have the time of their lives. ....Fraternity guys rolling deep with their crew. Girls everywhere. Energy through the roof. And I wished I was one of them. But I wasn't. I was a lonely foreign student from Norway in a brand new country with almost no friends. No fraternity. No crew. No brotherhood. No one to call up and say "hey let's go out tonight." I didn't even have anyone to grab a meal with most days. โฆ.๐๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ'๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฒโฆ.๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐ฑ๐๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐'๐ฆ ๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญโฆ. Maybe you're in a fraternity right now and you're the social chair trying to figure out how to throw events that actually MEAN something. Or maybe you're NOT in a fraternity and you're watching those guys have all the fun while you're sitting in your dorm wondering how to break in. Or maybe you just don't FIT the fraternity mould but you KNOW you've got something in you that wants to bring people together. I get it. .....Because that was ME. The worst part? I wasn't used to "dating" the American way. Back in Norway we went out in GROUPS. You'd meet girls naturally through friends of friends. No pressure. No awkward one-on-one pickup lines. No swiping right and hoping for the best. Just good energy in a group setting and things would happen organically. But here in America? I didn't have the group. I didn't have the crew. I was watching other guys surrounded by girls having the time of their lives while I stood on the outside looking in. โฆ.๐๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐'๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ง๐จ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโฆ. You don't need a fraternity to have a brotherhood.