It’s nice guy fear disguised as "i don't want to be rude". Explaining instead of deciding.
Managing emotions instead of holding the frame.
Calling it “being a good man” while avoiding tension.
If you get that feeling, you know the exact one, the one where "should I say something",
the nice guy part of you will try to justify not speaking up,
but what you're feeling is your inner grounded man itching to step up.
Not to be rude,
not to be arrogant.
But because he knows whats right, and what should be said.
The work of the path you're on is to dismantle that operating system.
Who has felt this recently and allowed the grounded man in them to step up?