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So I am in a situation and not sure what to do. My son's birthday is next week and we plan on celebrating it with family and friends. My family is always a hit or miss at showing up and right now financially and emotionally (in terms of stress in planning a birthday) it might be easier if they didn't come and we went to my moms house to celebrate over there seperately with them, but I already invited them.
To make matters worse I called one of my nieces to ask if they were coming and pretty much told her (in a joking/serious manner) that I was trying to get them to opt out of coming so that it wouldnt be as expensive and she proceeded to tell my other family since they are currently cutting my nephew a cake for his birthday today (to be clear my nephews and nieces are adults). I felt so stupid and embarassed and now I am not sure what to do, if I should talk to them and explain and almost recind the invitation and deal with whatever feelings they may have after or show face and tell them to come anyway. Either way not feeling great
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