Its not a women's circle but something i shared today .

This morning i looked in the mirror , i judged myself for being scruffy , annoyed at all the layers of clothing i need to wear now the weather has truned and my biological temperature gage doesnt work so good so i was like i look rough , i look worn aged ragged i also look butch and manly in some way - NO NO NO i heard in my ears stop listening to those old words of others where is your truth .......

✨ Femininity is not measured by what someone wears.

We’ve all heard “don’t judge a book by its cover” — and yet, how often do we still place people into boxes based on clothing and aesthetics?

For me personally, I wear what fits my lifestyle — caring for horses, moving through cold weather, and handling the day’s tasks. Flowing silks and dresses sound beautiful, but they’re not always practical. That doesn’t make me — or anyone — less feminine.

Because femininity, masculinity, humanity — none of it lives in clothes. It lives in energy.

Do they feel soft, light, caring, kind?

Do they feel harsh, dense, closed off?

See with your heart, not your programmed mind.

Practice awareness. Practice discernment.

Because the truth of a person will always be beyond appearance.

So if you’re someone who gets judged for what you wear, how you cut your hair, how you sound, or anything else — please know this:

✨ All of you is welcome.

✨ However you choose to be.

✨ Do you, boo. xxx

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