📝 Will You Talk About Your Will?

MyLera Wellness

Aug '25 • Circle of Care

It’s a taboo subject—until it’s time to talk about it.

But by then, emotions are high, details are fuzzy, and loved ones are left guessing.

Let’s begin now, so we can honor wishes.

This doesn’t mean we’re giving up on Life.

It means we’re ensuring you’re living the Life you want—with clarity, dignity, and care.

📊 The Reality

76% of Americans don’t have a will.

That’s millions of families left without guidance, protection, or peace of mind.

Without a will:

- Assets may be distributed by state law—not your wishes.

- Guardianship for children or dependents may be unclear.

- Loved ones may face delays, legal fees, and painful decisions.

💬 How to Start the Conversation

Whether you’re receiving care or giving it, here’s how to gently open the door:

If you’re the parent or person receiving care:

- “I’ve been thinking about how to make things easier for you someday. Can we talk about my wishes?”

- “I want to make sure you’re protected and supported. Let’s plan together.”

If you’re the caregiver or supporter:

- “I know this isn’t easy, but I want to honor your wishes. Have you thought about a will?”

- “Even if it feels like there’s ‘nothing to leave,’ your voice matters. Let’s make sure it’s heard.”

✅ What Should a Will Include?

- Who inherits your assets (even small ones!)

- Guardianship plans for children or dependents

- Instructions for pets, digital accounts, or sentimental items

- Your chosen executor—the person who carries out your wishes

And remember: your legacy isn’t just money.

It’s clarity, care, and peace of mind.

🌟 Why It’s Worth It

- Reduces stress and conflict for loved ones

- Ensures your values and relationships are honored

- Helps you reflect on what matters with others

🫶 Let’s Talk About It

This week, we invite you to start the conversation. Share your thoughts, your fears, your questions. Whether you’ve written a will or never considered it, your voice helps normalize this essential act of care.

📣 And for our U.S. members:

SSP is offering free guidance and support to help some of our community members create or update their wills. If you’re interested, drop a comment or message us privately—we’ll connect you with resources.

Let’s turn discomfort into empowerment.

Your care circle deserves clarity, and so do you.

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