13d • General discussion
This post is for everyone here.
Yes, you! 🫵🏼
Because let’s be honest:
People don’t randomly join a space about psychology, sexual healing, relationships, emotional regulation, attachment patterns.
Something brought you here.
tell me in the comments whats it? What brought you into this community? 👇
Now let’s talk about the objection nobody likes to examine.
“Therapy is expensive.”
“I’ll do it later.”
“I just need more discipline.”
“I can figure it out myself.”
Okay.
But let me ask you something directly.
How many more years are you willing to live a life that feels half-lived? ⏳
How many more cycles of the same partner dynamic?
The same emotional triggers?
The same shutdown?
The same avoidance?
The same dissatisfaction in intimacy?
Because here’s the uncomfortable truth:
You are already paying.
You’re paying with:
— wasted time
— wrong relationships
— nervous system exhaustion
— lost confidence
— sexual frustration
— emotional numbness
— self-sabotage
The cost of staying the same is just invisible until it isn’t.
Mental health is like going to the dentist 🦷
You don’t wait until your jaw collapses to see a dentist.
You go preventively.
You go when something hurts.
You go because you understand that ignoring it makes it worse — and more expensive.
Psychological health works the same way.
Attachment wounds don’t disappear with time.Trauma doesn’t dissolve by willpower.Sexual shame doesn’t fix itself through positive thinking.
They calcify.
And one day they show up as:
— divorce
— erectile dysfunction
— intimacy breakdown
— compulsive behavior
— chronic anxiety
— burnout
You wouldn’t perform your own dental surgery.
And you definitely wouldn’t perform your own open-heart surgery.
So why do people think they can perform deep psychodynamic repair alone? 🧠
Yes, information is more accessible than ever.Communities like this are powerful.
It’s honestly tragic that schools never taught emotional regulation, attachment theory, sexual health, or nervous system awareness.
But information ≠ transformation.
Reading posts is like watching surgical tutorials.
Useful.But not the same as being on the operating table with a professional.
When you need surgery — you don’t Google it and grab a knife.
“But therapy is expensive.”
What is the cost of the problem if it continues for 5 more years?
Lost relationships?
Lower income because of self-sabotage?
Staying in a job that drains you?
Repeated heartbreak?
Sexual dysfunction left untreated?
Living below your potential?
Now compare that to the cost of fixing it.
Therapy isn’t expensive.
Staying stuck is expensive.
You don’t lack resources.
You lack a decision. 🛑
And let’s be honest about something deeper.
If you’re not ready to commit, that’s okay.
But be radically honest with yourself.
Is it really about money?
Fear of being seen.
Fear of accountability.
Fear that change will require you to stop blaming your past, your parents, your partners.
Fear that if things actually improve, you’ll have to show up differently.
That’s where the real resistance lives.
What is actually stopping you from taking action and changing your life?
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