WHY PLAYING IT SAFE IS COSTING YOU CLIENTS (AND WHAT TO DO INSTEAD)
Your opinions are not gonna cost you clientsโ€ฆ
๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—น. ๐—ง๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—บ.
I spent so long watching people online trying to be palatableโ€ฆ trying to say things that nobody could possibly disagree withโ€ฆ softening every edgeโ€ฆ qualifying every statementโ€ฆ adding that little but of course everyone's journey is different disclaimer onto the end of everything just in caseโ€ฆ just in caseโ€ฆ just in caseโ€ฆpfffttt
And their content is justโ€ฆ thereโ€ฆ isn't itโ€ฆ inoffensiveโ€ฆ forgettableโ€ฆ beigy afโ€ฆ existing quietly in the middle where nothing really lands and nobody really feels anythingโ€ฆ
And then I watch someone else open their mouth and say something that makes half the room go YES FINALLY and the other half go absolutely not and I thinkโ€ฆ THAT personโ€ฆ that person is going somewhereโ€ฆ
Because here's the thing that changed everything for me when I actually let it sink inโ€ฆ
๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—˜๐—š๐—ก๐—˜๐—ง๐—œ๐—– ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ. Totes cannot. And honestlyโ€ฆ why the fck would you wanna beโ€ฆ
Because magnetism doesn't work like that does itโ€ฆ magnets attract AND repelโ€ฆ that is literally the whole point of themโ€ฆ the repelling isn't the failureโ€ฆ the repelling is what makes the attracting so powerfulโ€ฆ and if you're not repelling anyoneโ€ฆ you're probably not attracting anyone eitherโ€ฆ you're justโ€ฆ floating thereโ€ฆ neutralโ€ฆ mehโ€ฆn that sucksโ€ฆ
When someone unfollows you because you said something realโ€ฆ that is not a bad dayโ€ฆ that is the filter doing exactly what it's supposed to doโ€ฆ
๐—œ'๐—บ ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ป. I'm sweary. I live in Bali with a rescue dog and a family of toads under my kitchen sink. I have very strong opinions about integrity and honesty and what it actually means to stand for somethingโ€ฆ and I share themโ€ฆ loudlyโ€ฆ consistentlyโ€ฆ without the disclaimer on the endโ€ฆ
Not everyone likes that. And honestlyโ€ฆ good. ๐Ÿ˜‚
Because the ones who doโ€ฆ they're MY peopleโ€ฆ they find me fast and they stay and they don't need convincing because they already feel it before I've even finished the sentenceโ€ฆ
You don't need more followers. You need the RIGHT damn ones. And the only way to get the right ones is to stop contorting yourself trying to appeal to all of them FFSโ€ฆ
๐—ฆ๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด. ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด. ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚'๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ณ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—พ๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜†๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ต๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜†โ€ฆ
It's ok. Just say it.
The Backroom is full of people who did. โค๏ธ
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