I feel like when you stop caring if women like or not is when you get good results. In high school I did not care about dating at all and just focused on playing chess and school and I got really good at chess with a few other people in my school to the point we won tournaments and everyone knew me as one of the best chess players in the state. Then girls would come up and start conversations with me but I would not care which I believe resulted in more to approach me. It’s ok if dating is a priority but never make it your number 1 priority always have something you care more about.