Dec '25 (edited) • 🎯Wins
Day #24 Santa is coming to town.....
We learned early that love was conditional. We learned to perform for approval before we could even read. Santa just made it festive.
Be good, get rewarded. Be bad, lose love.That wiring did not disappear when we grew up. It just changed costumes.
2. This is where people pleasing starts
Trying to earn approval.Trying to be good enough.Trying not to disappoint.Sound familiar?
3. This same pattern shows up with food and bodies
Good eating equals pride.Bad eating equals guilt.Same system. Different wrapping paper.
4. Joy was framed as something you earn, not something you get to have
Rest, pleasure, celebration all had rules attached.That belief runs a lot of adult lives quietly.
5. Awareness is the exit ramp!!
Once you see the pattern, you stop running it. You choose health, joy, and vitality because you want to.Not because you think you have to earn it.
So get out there and Make great great day....because you choose to!
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Day #24 Santa is coming to town.....
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