I hadn’t liked even one of their posts.
Commented on anything.
Asked them a question.
Shown ANY interest in what they sell.
Yet within two messages...
They’d already decided what my problem was:
“𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗮𝗯𝗹𝘆 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗳𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝘃𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗱...”
Errrr...
based on WHAT? 😂
They hadn’t asked me ANYTHING
They just dropped a diagnosis into my inbox...
then pointed me towards an offer.
And even after saying “no thanks”
They still kept pushing.
But the thing that REALLY annoyed me…
They weren’t listening.
👉🏻 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗮 𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗽𝘁.
Message one.
Message two.
Link.
Follow-up.
Push again.
My replies didn’t matter!
And that’s why this kind of outreach doesn’t work.
Because the person on the other side can FEEL when they’re being processed.
There was no indicator of interest.
No curiosity.
No attempt to understand context.
And even when I said: “No thank you.”
the script kept rolling.
Good outreach should feel like a conversation.
That means paying attention to what the other person is giving you.
If they lean in...
keep talking.
If they ask...
answer.
If they show interest...
explore it.
And if they say: “No thanks.”
LISTEN and READ THE FRIGGIN' ROOM 😆
We’re not about ramming every single contact toward the offer.
We’re about noticing who is already showing an IOI and have a real conversation with them.
And if you’re already in premium learning how to do this? Thank you! We appreciate your support!