My name is Shynta (Shawn-ta) and I am a chosen mother of 4. Three girls and a boy. I came across this community on facebook and glad I did. I am a parent that yells to get my point across. It works but I’ve learned it doesn’t sustain them; they’re only doing what I say out of fear. My goal in this community is to learn effective communication and ways to help my children navigate through life without the “fear” and to help them make responsible choices and decisions.