Let’s get practical. Because a lot of people hear “renew your mind” But nobody really explains HOW. So what happens? You wake up… And the SAME thoughts come back. The same frustration. The same triggers. The same mindset. And now you’re trying to parent… from a mind that was never reset. So let’s break this down simple. 🔥 1. Catch the thought You cannot change what you don’t notice. When your child does something and your mind says: “I’m overwhelmed” “I can’t do this” “they’re too much” STOP. Catch it. 🔥 2. Check the thought Ask yourself: “Is this helping me lead right now?”Because just because you FEEL it…doesn’t mean you should FOLLOW it. 🔥 3. Replace the thought You don’t just remove it… you replace it. Instead of “I can’t do this” You say “God gave me this child, so I CAN do this.” Instead of “They’re too much” You say “I just need a better system.” Instead of “I’m overwhelmed” You say “I need a reset, not a breakdown.” 🔥 4. Move differently Because real change is not just thinking…it’s ACTION. You don’t just say “I’m going to be patient.” You lower your tone You shorten your words If you don’t control your thoughts…your thoughts will control your home. Because how you THINK…is how you respond. And how you respond… is how your home is built. So no… this isn’t about being perfect.This is about being intentional with your thoughts, your words and your actions Because your children don’t just need correction… they need a parent who is mentally disciplined. Let’s talk: What is ONE thought you struggle with daily as a parent?

Hey to every beautiful soul in this community. My name is Shani (suh-n-eye) I am a wife and a mother of 4. 3 boys and 1 girl. I am so glad God has lead me to this community!. I have battled with depression, consistency, self-love, and wanting everything to be perfect (pride) I have shamefully let the enemy in my house, through my mental state and allowed it to play tricks on me! But no more shall I give it authority! I look forward to learning, healing, and walking stronger and firmer in my faith!

Father God, As we lead our homes and correct our children, we ask for wisdom. Your Word tells us not to provoke our children to anger… So Lord, show us where we may be crossing that line. Show us when correction turns into frustration. Show us when discipline turns into control. Show us when our tone, our words, or our reactions are pushing our children instead of leading them. Teach us how to correct without breaking their spirit. Teach us how to be firm… but still loving. Clear… but still patient. Consistent… but still understanding. And Lord, give us discernment. Tell us when enough is enough on our end. When to speak… and when to be quiet. When to correct… and when to step back and let the lesson settle. Help us not to parent from anger, pride, or the need to “win” the moment. But to parent in a way that builds our children, not frustrates them. We don’t just want obedient children… We want children who feel seen, heard, and guided. So refine us as parents. Correct us where we are wrong. Strengthen us where we are weak. And help us lead our homes in a way that reflects You. In Jesus’ name, Amen. If this prayer is for you today, comment: “Lord, teach me balance.”

Prayer Request for Me and My kids we've been dealing with a lot trying to get things together after relocating from Arizona to Atlanta. We believing God to Restore everything we Lost and to restore our relationship as a family 🙏 thank loves, support and Walks with God daily in everything we do.

Todays has been overwhelming. I received a call from the school letting me know that my son has been suspended from the bus again, making this the fourth incident. They showed grace by choosing not to remove him from the bus for the remainder of the school year. Instead, they decided on a 15-day suspension, considering my current circumstances with limited transportation and financial challenges getting him back and forth. The school has already put several plans of action in place, and I have truly been trying, praying, but it just feels like nothing is working right now. Not sure what I am needing.