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the pressure of having kids or getting married CURE...
Have any of you ever felt pressure to have kids or to get married and found yourself resisting the process, and then had a shift that allowed you to let go and then you felt more free? Also, have any of you made that shift and then also had kids or found your person? Share below your stories and insights! I was talking to a friend of mine who feels the pressure to have kids and was helping her get to the core of the desire and energy. I personally don't feel this pressure but many people do at a certain age and especially women. what shifted for you? I'd love to read them. I'm making a video on this right now, and I'd love to share your insights with the audience to help people also your shares will inspire others in the comments!
the pressure of having kids or getting married CURE...
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Welcome into High Vibe Tribe!
we are the High Vibe Tribe dedicated to elevating our vibration and expanding our consciousness. We stand for healing and going into our inner work to transform from the inside out. We live by the values of courage, vulnerability, and presence and this community is focused on helping us all to grow into our most authentic selves. Freedom is the intention and as we meditate, heal and step into our power... we let go of the old and wire in a new way of being. We understand that our outer reality is a refection of our inner reality and rather than blame the outside or try to fix it, we look at ourselves and let go of parts of ourselves attached to the beliefs, patterns and past "familiar" energies keeping us locked in the past. When you go through a spiritual awakening many feel like the lone wolves in their family. This community is a way to connect with other people like you… dedicated to healing the past, spiritual growth, and creating their dream life. This is not about surface level change or thinking better thoughts… it’s about doing the inner work, looking at subconscious parts most people avoid (the shadow) and creating inside out transformation. There are some Rules for this community to keep it a safe space… 1. Absolutely no selling or promoting other groups/events. This includes directing messaging other members. Members who break this rule will be banned from the group.  2. Posts should either add value and be well thought out. Lets create a high vibe, supportive community section  3. No posting “who else lives in New York?” Etc these will be deleted as if everyone posted them the group will be flooded with it. if you want to learn how to see who lives in your city I share in the video below 4. Be supportive and accepting of other people. Like posts, support other people and encourage them. 
Welcome into High Vibe Tribe!
This chapter is not about what you've lost.
For years, society conditions us to mourn the passing of our youth, as if our greatest value was tied to how perfectly we met the exhausting expectations of others. We spend decades carefully maintaining a flawless image, quietly carrying the heavy burden of chronic people-pleasing while our true, vibrant selves slowly disappear beneath the weight. But as the seasons of our lives shift, a profound realization dawns: growing older is not a tragic process of losing yourself; it is the magnificent, liberating shedding of everything that never actually belonged to you. The Buddha illuminated the awakening perfection of Paññā, or supreme discerning wisdom. This is absolutely never a passive acceptance of fading into the background; it is a fierce, courageous, and highly active clarity. It is the powerful realization that you no longer need to exhaust your precious energy entertaining spaces, relationships, or illusions that do not honor your spirit. Cultivating this deep wisdom means establishing unshakeable boundaries, fiercely protecting your hard-earned peace, and finally distinguishing the fleeting distractions from the quiet truths that genuinely sustain your soul. You have fought through countless quiet storms to earn the absolute right to stand comfortably within your own skin, completely free from the draining need to prove your worth to anyone. Embrace the staggering bravery of walking your own chosen path and unapologetically saying no to whatever dims your light. This chapter is not about what you have lost; it is the beautiful, triumphant arrival of your most authentic self.
The reality of suffering
We are constantly told that what does not destroy us is supposed to make us stronger, heavily conditioned to believe that successful healing always looks like developing an impenetrable armor. Society expects us to emerge from our deepest tragedies with a thick skin, completely unaffected and perfectly resilient. We quietly carry an immense, exhausting shame when our broken hearts do not heal back into their original shape, secretly believing that our lingering sadness and heightened sensitivity to the world are signs that we have somehow failed at moving on. The Buddha deeply acknowledged the profound, world-shattering reality of Dukkha (suffering), and he explicitly taught that a hardened, defensive heart is never the goal of an awakened life. He elevated the profound beauty of Mudu-citta—a heart and mind that remains soft, tender, and beautifully pliable. The intense sensitivity you carry after trauma is absolutely never a defect. It is a profound, albeit painful, tearing open of your spirit that allows you to deeply understand the interconnected sorrow of others. This raw empathy is the exact, sacred soil where Karuṇā (true, unshakeable compassion) firmly takes root. You possess the absolute, sovereign right to exist in the world exactly as you are right now, gently carrying your grief without feeling pressured to quickly build a wall around it. Actively choosing to navigate reality with a uniquely tender spirit, even when it aches, is a magnificent declaration of your own spiritual dignity. Grant yourself the unapologetic grace to honor the pieces of you that feel permanently changed, deeply trusting that your open, sensitive heart is an incredibly courageous way to survive.
This week feels like Fire 🔥
This week feels like Fire moving through every layer of me. Not just inspiration or passion, but movement. Momentum. Action. The kind of energy that says it’s time. So much of what I’ve been working toward internally is now asking to become physical. Not more planning. Not more dreaming. Not more sitting in the emotions of it all. Movement. Choice. Action. Forward. But Fire has wisdom too. Fire can warm a home or burn it down depending on how it’s tended. I know when I work closely with Fire energy I can become intensely excited, inspired, and ready to leap before grounding myself fully into the moment. And sometimes that intensity can leave scars when I move faster than my nervous system, body, or spirit can actually hold. So this week is not about extinguishing the Fire. It’s about tending it consciously. Grounding before action. Breathing before reacting. Honoring my pace even while moving forward. Keeping Water nearby to soften and balance the intensity. Because true Fire energy is not reckless. It is focused. Intentional. Alive. This week is asking me to stop circling the doorway and finally walk through it. To trust the momentum I’ve built. To meet the opportunities in front of me with courage and embodiment. Less “one day.” More “today.”
This week feels like Fire 🔥
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