A weak man will always choose the woman who doesn't challenge him. The real woman who walks into relationships brings her standards, her vision, her bank account, her boundaries, her history of doing the hard work on herself, and her capacity to transform purpose into action. He thought he wanted it, posted about it, imagining having a strong, independent woman, but the moment she actually showed up, it required him to match her energy, and instead, he shrank, sabotaged, and picked a woman where no work is needed. He will say it's about chemistry, but it's actually about comfort. You need to realize it's never about you. It was about him... The fact is, the woman he chose is a woman who doesn't require him to evolve. She lets him stay still, and stillness is what a weak man chooses every single time over a woman who will make him a better man. The man that God builds for you is a man who looks at everything you bring, and he decides he wants to grow into being worthy of it. That's the only kind of man you should be available to anymore.

Lately, Ive been thunking a lot about "detachment" from a spiritual context. I believe there is a lot of personal power that comes from detaching from all outcomes. All things we have no control over. This is tough for me but I've been working on it over the past year or so. For those who have found beauty and fulfillment with this, what are things you do daily or consistently to stay in the state of mind of detachment?

Stay in the Love vibration as much as you can. You can use the energy to feel the Love in all things. Breathe deep and regulate your nervous system. This will help you receive the Love that’s there for you. You can have as much as you like. 👍 Much Love! ❤️

“She let go. Without a thought or a word, she let go. She let go of the fear. She let go of the judgments. She let go of the confluence of opinions swarming around her head. She let go of the committee of indecision within her. She let go of all the ‘right’ reasons. Wholly and completely, without hesitation or worry, she just let go. She didn’t ask anyone for advice. She didn’t read a book on how to let go. She didn’t search the scriptures. She just let go. She let go of all of the memories that held her back. She let go of all of the anxiety that kept her from moving forward. She let go of the planning and all of the calculations about how to do it just right. She didn’t promise to let go. She didn’t journal about it. She didn’t write the projected date in her Day-Timer. She made no public announcement and put no ad in the paper. She didn’t check the weather report or read her daily horoscope. She just let go. She didn’t analyze whether she should let go. She didn’t call her friends to discuss the matter. She didn’t do a five-step Spiritual Mind Treatment. She didn’t call the prayer line. She didn’t utter one word. She just let go. No one was around when it happened. There was no applause or congratulations. No one thanked her or praised her. No one noticed a thing. Like a leaf falling from a tree, she just let go. There was no effort. There was no struggle. It wasn’t good and it wasn’t bad. It was what it was, and it just that. In the space of letting go, she let it all be. A small smile came over her face. A light breeze blew through her. And the sun and the moon shone forevermore…” by Safire Rose https://www.facebook.com/reel/494984161124093/? mibextid=ZZyLBr What are you holding onto too tightly? When we losen the grip, and trust, we allow what isn’t aligned to leave and what is to arrive. One step, one moment and one breathe….

Given that this is 'High Vibe' tribe I figured this may be an interesting question to post..! What are some things that help get you into a high vibe state of being? Anything in particular high vibe experiences that already happened over the past week, or some experiences you'd like to incorporate more of into the next week to help raise your vibe? For me some, a few of the 'high vibe' experiences of the week were swimming in the ocean, biking along the coast earlier today with some great music, and really getting into a lighthearted state when I was dancing in zumba class :) Also made a delicious ice cream sundae last night as well 🎈🦄