Hello guys. I wanted to ask you if someone experienced the same thing. 2 months ago I met a person who is exactly my type, he seems too good to be true but then I realized I started to feel scared. He shows interest but im always looking for red flags. Also another thing, something that I wanted happened but I find myself scared again like what if things go wrong and I lose etc. anyone experienced some thoughts like this ??

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