Calling My Energy Home… It’s Been Socializing Too Much!
“Cutting the cords” used to sound like a full spiritual production in my head. Dim lights. Incense doing interpretive dance. Me in a robe I don’t own… dramatically declaring: “I now release all attachments!” Meanwhile… 20 minutes later… I’m emotionally reconnected to the same situation like Wi-Fi that refuses to drop. 📶😌 Because here’s the gentle truth: cords are not just between you and people. They’re everywhere. To that person you still energetically check on. To that conversation you replay with better comebacks (you always win, obviously). To that belief that says “this is just who I am.” To that memory you keep polishing like a museum artifact. To that emotion you visit so often it has your name on the door. Cords to: people, places, timelines, versions of you, expectations, old identities, future fantasies, guilt, control, “what ifs”, and my personal favorite… imaginary scenarios that deserve an Oscar but never needed your energy. 🎬 So cord cutting is not about pushing anything away. It’s not rejection. It’s not cold. It’s kind. Deeply kind. Because the real intention is this: calling your energy back. From every place you left it. Every time you overgave it. Every person, situation, emotion, memory, thought where a little piece of you stayed behind like, “I’ll just leave this here… just in case.” No more “just in case.” Now it becomes: “I lovingly call all my energy back to me… from all people, all places, all timelines, all situations, all emotions, all memories, all thoughts… whether I’m aware of it or not.” And suddenly it’s not dramatic. It’s intimate. You start noticing the micro-moments: when your mind tries to revisit that story when your body leans into that old feeling when your attention quietly wanders back to somewhere it no longer belongs And instead of judging it… you smile, like someone gently collecting their belongings after a long trip. “This is mine. I’ll take it back now.” Snip. Not aggressive. Not final. Just… conscious. And yes, sometimes the cord tries to reattach itself like: