Very Vulnerable Post 😪 · High Vibe Tribe

Nov '25 • Shadow work/innerChild Healing

Very Vulnerable Post 😪

Recently something horrible happened to me... something I thought I had already healed from and overcome, but once again the universe BOOM put me to the test 😪 I want to share it here because I know it can help many of you, because the truth is we are always in constant progress, and because we truly need to be more compassionate with ourselves 💗

I come from a divorce that broke me two years ago, one where I had to learn to stop pleasing everyone, to stop putting everyone else above me, and to have a voice even when I was afraid to speak.

I’m currently selling what used to be our home, and a buyer came along who, from day one, had terrible energy. Wanting to close this chapter quickly, I ignored some red flags. This woman yelled at me, threatened me, and I just let it happen in order to “keep the peace” of the transaction and the sale ... at the expense of my own peace of mind and what I knew was right.

In the end, this woman backed out one day before closing, and I felt awful. Right then, I’ve felt like vomiting, I’ve cried a lot, and I’ve felt terrible for not trusting what my intuition had clearly told me. But that wasn’t even the worst part, the worst was when she called me saying “poor you, a single mother,” and that she’d give me half the deposit. I’m telling you, there are people out there with bad intentions who don’t care about anything and have zero integrity.

We’ve had to go into a legal fight over the deposit, but beyond the money, this situation hit me hard because I felt like I had failed myself. Deep down I always knew this deal wouldn’t work, yet I let it happen.

Now, though, I can talk about it from compassion instead of anger toward myself and that’s why I can share it. We are always healing, and the tests life throws at us are tough, but each time we gain more awareness. I can’t compare the Lorena who allowed so many things in her marriage with the Lorena who allowed this woman to treat her that way, I’m proud of myself because every mistake I’ve made has shaped me into the woman I am today.

And I hope you, if you’re reading this, are proud of yourself too, even if you’re going through your own trial by fire right now. I’m sending love to all of you 💗

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Very Vulnerable Post 😪