So when the ex eventually comes back and says I miss you!?

I've read and heard so many posts and understand the energy involved in this but no one says what are we to do with this? How are we to respond in a way that is strong and doesn't undermine our dignity or the pain we went through because the other partner acted so wrongly and caused so much pain. In my situation it wasn't done with any kind of respect or discussion. After 20 years marriage and 4 children it was very abruptly over. I had intense shock and ptsd, and I was forced to move out very quickly. Just writing this reminds me howuxh I went through last year. those of you here who went through this with me will know.

The UniVerse opened my heart and asked me to move on and move forward and I have. I'm most grateful for all I have now and know very well that the man whose loving me now is giving me more than I ever received from my ex.

I kkow an I miss you text out of the blue, with the words I'm sorry to have to say this leading into it. Isn't in anyway an I want you back. Its just a lonely selfish expression, along with some harsh realisations of what he threw away. Surely no understanding or regret about how he did that or the amount of days and nights I went through to get to where I am today and heal.

So basically Im asking advise... What on earth do I do with a text like that, and how in general should I respond to his heart cries. You know like my initial response in my head was what the fuck? But in the high vibe persona seriously how's the best way to respond? And to go forward. Maybe it can be a step towards a friendship and good Co parenting... But the last time we met that all naturally flowed anyway. So I don't see how this can facilitate that, but my response or no response may affect it.

So there's plenty of Facebook posts and reels saying how the guy will feel later down the line when he has some realisations but no one says how to he prepared for that and how's the best way to move forward with it.???

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