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Ramble

What is a trauma bond exactly, and how is it bad?

When I see a healthy person, how do I expect them to understand the way I am, certain things that are difficult for me, certain things i struggle with, I have been working since last 3 years, there have been breakthroughs but somethings just too difficult to change.

Healthy people it's like, They got lucky with good parents and environment and household which is not filled with tensions but is safe, where certains parts of them are not discouraged, or called bad or said and driving the wound of "there's something wrong with them" into them.

They show up differently in life, they interact differently with people choose relationship differently, cause it fine for them to choose it that way.

How is somebody who got trauma even pair with somebody who doesn't?

What?

Pls don't tell me to become healthy, you can be more healthier more whole on your own, more secure, but wounds that I have stayed, unless contradictory experience happens they won't go.

How would you even interact with someone who lives life on a different plane.

They don't go home, thinking they messed up here, or notice the issue that came up somewhere in the day that has its roots in the past, the self belief of playing small, or not taking up space. And the fact that working on all the issues is a month after month task and with no necessary guarantee, sometimes it does sometimes it doesn't, how long do I plan to keep going doing this? As I see people enjoy their lifes.?

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