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Jan 19 • General discussion
I’ve seen 100’s of people attract love once they did this…
The key to attracting love is not to just “not care” if you do or not…
It’s not to be “good either way”
It’s not to just bury yourself in work or other hobbies and forget about it all together…
And it's not even about becoming aware of your core trauma or story around love from childhood…
It’s not about taking down the masculine or feminine shield that may be up from childhood protecting you
I mean… all these things are A PART of the journey… and I’ve seen many people transform through these insights
The most powerful way I’ve seen people attract love is on the other side of allowing yourself to feel an emotion you are afraid to feel
For me this changed everything
As a kid… tension was something I felt I had to manage in other people
Having a controlling ex step mom in my life created a dynamic of wanting to please to receive approval
My whole life I’ve been very good at reading peoples intentions due to having her in my life from 9 to 17
This pattern would have me abandon myself in order to make others happy
For years I struggled with attracting girlfriends I felt I need to “fix”
I wouldn’t express how I really felt
I wouldn’t set boundaries
And I wouldn’t be vulnerable because I was afraid of rejection
I was stuck in pattern that kept me from the scary emotions that were suppressed inside of my body
Once I got the the core of the pattern and felt what I was afraid to feel… that was when everything changed
This meant leaning into tension and expressing the real me
Even if my body coiled up when setting boundaries I would remind myself that their emotions are not mine to manage
If someone didn’t resonate with the real me… it wasn’t my job to win them over…
Instead of searching for validation and approval on the outside… I started to approve of myself and realize that THAT was the key
I started to respect myself and as a result… I wasn’t attached to their approval or validation
When I came back to ME and started to feel the emotions I was afraid to feel…
I became FREE
And the funny thing was…
Being that FREE version of me who wasn’t pleasing everyone… was more attractive
It felt like an invisible shield was removed from me and all of the sudden I had multiple please attracted to me who prior I thought weren’t interested
Shortly after that love came into my life on the outside to mirror the acceptance and love I felt on the inside
And it was with someone who I knew deeply for 5 years
Love may be all around you…
And once you stop leaving you and come back to your body…
You’ll feel it AND see it
Have a great day!
Much love,
Aaron Doughty
p.s to help you get to the core of your love blocks and become FREE and a magnet to love I will be running a 10 Day Magnetic Love Reset in February!
10 days to remove your love blocks and open up to more love and connection!
Whether you are in a relationship and want to go DEEPER
or single and want to allow love in or feel FREE of the chase
On Thursday I will open the doors for enrollment!
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