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Sep '25 • General discussion
if you could embrace your dark side... what would that be like? (my insights on the plane to EUROPE)
did you have to be "good" growing up?
and did being "good" mean abandoning yourself? did it mean saying yes when you feel NO?
did id mean being "perfect" or always having an answer?
did it mean getting approval or validation to feel "safe" or enough?
what where the conditions growing up to getting or receiving "love"
these conditions are normally "conditional" and a result of believing love wasn't something you got just for being
growing up I had to walk on eggshells and gain the approval of my ex step mom... this led to playing a subconcious game of proving my worth and being the "good" person who fixes people and situations
this patttern also attracted people who I felt I needed to "fix"
it wasn't until I became aware of this pattern that I began to become free
and that meant embracing my DARK side...
expressing how I really felt... and not being attached to outcome or easing the other persons tension
not being afraid to be "the bad guy" for setting boundaries or saying NO
letting people work through their own stuff instead of coming to the rescue to fix (enable)
todays self inquiry is one to hopefully begin the process to free you from the subconscious patters of who you believe you myst BE to receive love
and what can you EMBRACE on the other side of it?
share your answers below and read what others say!
on my way to Europe right now on the plane and thought I would post this for fun!
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if you could embrace your dark side... what would that be like? (my insights on the plane to EUROPE)
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