⚡High Vibe Message of the day ⚡

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You are magnetic when you value authenticity more than what others think. By being YOU, you accept yourself and give people the ability to see the real you

Whether they accept you or not is NOT your thing to manage and how you feel about you is…

Be the real you :)

Today's high vibe message is inspired from the awareness that often we may value what people think MORE than what we think

(also! if you want to receive texts of high vibe thoughts of the day like this up to a few times a week you can add me to your phone here https://my.community.com/aarondoughty )

This comes as an adaptable strategy as a kid where we look for approval from our parents or family

I remember in 3rd grade going to the teacher in art class to ask a question about my half done picture I drew of the ocean

I actually had no question… I was just hoping she said…

“WOW AARON THAT'S THE BEST THING I”VE EVER SEEN!”

“I’M STOPPING CLASS SO WE CAN ADMIRE THIS DRAWING YOU DID!”

But instead she answered my question and I sat back down…

Disappointed and wondering if my drawing “was enough…”

And if deep down…

If I was enough…

As kids we seek validation if we weren't taught to validate ourselves

If the teacher would has said…

What do YOU think of your drawing?

That would have influenced me to go inside myself to ask myself that question

As an adult I have learned to start asking myself this question more often…

And to then realize that how I feel about me is is more important than what others think

I value being authentic OVER validation of others

And as a result… I like me more and accept myself more

And if I like me and I accept myself, I don’t crave it in others…

Anyways hope you have a great day :)

Much love,

Aaron Doughty

P.s I’m thinking of doing more high vibe thoughts of the day like this…

Shorter ones I will send occasionally via text message

And then some longer explanations like this via email

Also if you want me to text you the shorter ones can you text me the word "vibe" to 424-304-0104 or add me here to your phone here https://my.community.com/aarondoughty

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