Have you ever noticed the more you want certain things the more you energetically “push” them away?
And why is it when you finally let go and are good either way… or you forgot about it…
THEN it comes into your life?
I was speaking to a friend yesterday who said she has been trying to have a baby with her husband for 2 years now
They do all the things…
Mainly the obvious one… but also all the other things to increase the likelihood of it happening
And yet they have yet to have a baby
This leaves them frustrated and feeling like there is something wrong
Their desire for a baby is so strong it affects their energy and day to day life
I shared with her a few stories I’ve heard from clients and other people that had similar challenges and then eventually got pregnant or had a baby
There's a well-known phenomenon where couples who've struggled with infertility, after releasing the pressure and choosing to adopt, suddenly find themselves pregnant shortly after
What is happening there?
Could it be that in the energy of being parents… they release the need and then their nervous systems relax?
Could it be that their adopted baby was meant to be in their life as the oldest and then following kids are meant to come after?
Who knows the spiritual implications however when giving something up to the divine or God…
I believe it is the best way to release resistance and pressure
My friend said that she always KNEW she would adopt… and her husband was on board too...
They just figured they should try now while the timing seemed “right”
To me it was clear to see that since they always wanted to adopt regardless of if they had kids or not…
maybe they could go into that now and then the pressure would release and who knows…
Shortly afterwards she could become pregnant!
Anyways today's message of the day is to realize you can let go and give it up to the divine…
Letting go of resistance is the key to feeling lighter and more free
And a more regulated nervous system!
Much love,
Aaron Doughty