maybe someone has some good tips for me
half a year ago I started a home study 'inner child therapy'
at the moment I have reached a point where it is completely clear to me that I am still looking for confirmation / approval from my father
the competitive behavior, over explaining my value, defending myself ...
physical and emotional abuse was a daily occurrence ... the safe haven that you as a daughter look for in a father was the opposite
i do not relate it from a victim role but because I can fully understand myself in this
but I would like to change this of course so I can attract / create healthy relationships in the future
my last relationship that I had was such a big mirror for me ... I realized that I repeatedly attracted emotionally unavailable partners and myself mainly fell back into a pattern of mainly giving and keeping the ‘peace ‘ as much as possible
not indicating my boundaries and so on
Maybe you have some nice additional tips for healing the fatherwound or letting go of approval ?thanks for your interest and reading my message 😊🙏🏼💫